Thursday, February 28, 2019

The Trombone Ballad of Mama Dear

Listen my children and you shall hear
the trombone ballad of my Mama Dear.
On the twenty-ninth of October in 1945,
she oiled and greased and prepared to slide
into seventh position, a very long stretch.
Could this ten year old make it?
Of course!
You bet!
Her Dad taught her to play arpeggios and scales
which gave way to ballads and marches and reels.
Orchestral arrangements she handled with zeal
which morphed into solos giving every listener a thrill.
She played marching and sitting and riding in wagons
and she always kept time
her slide never was draggin'.
Mama loved playing music and music loved her,
if a new group was forming, she'd give it a whirl.
Big bands and concert bands, she played in them all
but what I loved most happened when I was just small.
She put us to bed ostensibly to sleep
and out of our bedroom stealthily she would creep
to the hallway, the living room
where promptly she sat
and warmed up her trombone with nary a blat.
What delightful music
Mama coaxed from that brass!
It soothed and relaxed and never was crass.
To the sacred sound of hymns floating through the air
off to sleep I would soon be
with four four time and a flat here and there
drifting off to such sweet melodies.
For well over seventy years she's been playin'
from gospel, to Dixieland, and jazz
but the music I loved most to hear on that bone
were the ones that she practiced
and played in our home.
When I laid in bed 
as quiet as a mouse
and listened to Mama playing
reverent music to God
sweet ballads fit for her King.
- T Deffely
November 05, 2016


Thursday, February 21, 2019

The Old Barn Ode

Out in the country where the corn grows tall
sits an old barn without any paint at all.
The gray metal roof still casts its sheen
over the vegetation in a vast sea of green.
On any given Sunday if you were to drive by
you’d probably journey on since it wouldn’t catch your eye.
But there’s a secret within the walls of this particular barn
and I’m compelled to stop today and spin a family yarn.
Once upon a time there was a two story house that stood
to the south of the barn across from the chicken coop.
A young German Shepherd Dog frolicked in the yard
while my Grandma churned the butter and my uncles played and sparred.
Grandpa was on the tractor out in the field
while my Mother placed in the pan the potatoes she just peeled.
Later on that night if you were to venture past
you would hear the trombones playing with nary an errant blat.
But today the rickety chicken coop and the house are both long gone
and I must end my reminiscing for it’s time to move along.
But as I pull away from the barn in the middle of the corn
I feel a certain longing and my heart seems so forlorn.
Empty chairs and empty tables and empty homes and barns
hold within their memories a lifetime of family yarns.
-T Deffely
19 August 2018


The Gordon Bower farm Haskins, Ohio